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Huge,

You are right, Sean got divorced. But he had a lot of other problems besides the sex. The ignore thing was what I recommended to him to try for more sex, and he said it worked to an extent.

It is one of those things in life that take a lot of self control. I messed up a couple times and just gave in. But, after a while I was able to control it to the point where eventually, I was almost raped. Great!

Women have urges just like guys. Maybe not as often. But just as for guys, withholding something makes her want it more. All kinds of thoughts go through her mind. Is she no longer attractive? Has she screwed up and driven you off sex completely? Even, are you getting some on the side? Why can't she make you beg anymore?

You want sex? Be a challenge.

Bigger

Vivace,

Man I hope you have not done anything yet. I just read your last post. I remember the planning thing. She just might work you into her schedule. That sucks.

You cannot be mad about anything. No false fronts. Remember what the goal is: frequent sex. You have to truly be nice in everything. Be genuinely helpful.

Now, on Friday, do not say a word about sex in any way, shape or form. Be nice all day. Do a couple of special things for her. Something a little unusual. If she says come and get it, just say "no, not tonight, I just don't feel like it". Do not give in.

Now she may not try to get in depth the first time you do this. But within say the first five or six times, she will want to 'talk' about the situation. When she says this. Be evasive at first. Then, tell her you "do not wish for her to do something she does not want to do." Remember that line. Then, she will mew a little, and you say, "I'm sorry, but the fact that you don't seem to enjoy it really turns ME off. I just CAN'T do it tonight. Maybe sometime later". Then offer to rub her feet or back or snuggle with her. Make sure when you tell her this, you are a little hesitant. Like it hurts you to say it.

This will kill her.

If she ever wants to know why you are being sooo nice, tell her it is because you love her and want her to feel good.

Then she will want to talk about it some. Stick to the lines above, period. These lines will run through her head day and night. She will not be able to forget them. Interrupt her at some point and offer to get her something to drink. Change the subject if you can.

The next time she approaches you after this, you will notice a new nighty, probably a teddy. Maybe candles where there were no candles before. The bed may be a little different. Prepare to be seduced. If you can resist this time, you may have it made. Also, if you resist this time or the next, she may cry a little. Hug her. Whatever you do, no boners. Gives you away.

That will do for a start. Let us know what happens.

Bigger

@#%$ I keep forgeting stuff.

After you give in the first time and let her have it, she may go back to the same old attitude. If this happens you will really have to shut it down. Nothing. Then, when she starts again and seduces you, just say, "look, I cannot do this anymore. One time per month only hurts me. It does not even feel good because of the built up tension." ***At this point, if you can sniffle a little, it really works.

Then say, "unless we can find a way to do it more often, I need to just take care of myself." **Another sniffle maybe. Then, "I love you, but you need to respect my feelings on this and not do this to me anymore.".

This is the death blow. If you can pull it off, she will @#%$ you every day for two months just to try to feel better about herself and what she has done to you.

Bigger